DAY 153 (The Undefined term- Generation Gap)

I have come across a persistent issue (I sound so much like an IT professional) which has been there since forever and it seems its not gonna find a solution for itself as well! And it is "Generation Gap". How and where did this concept start...I had never known and neither do I wanna know it. But what bothers me is its definition. Two people with different perspective hide under the pillow of "generation gap" and find a way to stick to their ideas of perfection.

Who decides whether the mindset or perspective is correct or does it need to be altered? No one. And thats because if someone would try, he/she would again become a part of one of the either generations. And hence...it becomes easier to blame because there is one crime and multiple criminals!

Few years back..I read it somewhere that nothing is right or wrong when opinions are concerned. But one should learn from his/her own experience because that kinda experience holds more weight-age than anything else in the world. 

Now I don't think that it means that go crazy, get wild, become a jerk and then say...I am a proud learner! Thats ridiculous! It undoubtedly is. But don't hesitate in doing what you think can be done without doing any harm to yourself or anyone else. Also...you should let your loved-ones do the same for themselves as well. When you'll support them, you'll get the respect. Start from hearing them out. And you'll see the change. Imposing and restricting your views creates communication gap. The same communication gap which happened between you and your well-wishers when they tried to do the same.

Time changes. People don't. Gap is a space. Don't let the space to get created. 
After all...as I always say..."Talking brings two people to the score of LOVE ALL"! :)

Comments

  1. pragyaFebruary 3, 2011 at 8:13 AM

    nice supriya...i honestly believe dat evryone shud get a chance to commit mistakes n learn frm thm rather than stickin to a lifestyle imposed by someone else n i m sure our loved ones wud always be thr to catch us no matter how diffrnt our opinions be :)

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  2. supriyaFebruary 3, 2011 at 8:16 AM

    @paggy....yes..touchwood! :)

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  3. Chandni (Chanz)February 3, 2011 at 9:15 AM

    This generation gap has created by us. There is no doubt about that. It is merely the result of our snobbish nature, which increases further because of the ego that we carry. Indeed, gap is a space..!! It is in our hand to create this gap or demolish it from its roots.

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  4. Sketch Your Art OutFebruary 8, 2011 at 11:40 PM

    Generation gap has not created intentionally....dis is a perspective of an individual to be adapted to the changing society....generation gap is a reflection of the change!!!....
    nyc post supriya!!

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  5. PRAVEENFebruary 26, 2011 at 12:09 AM

    nice post.

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  6. supriyaFebruary 27, 2011 at 8:45 AM

    @chanz..true..

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  7. supriyaFebruary 27, 2011 at 8:45 AM

    @karan..thanks for your viewpoint karan..

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  8. supriyaFebruary 27, 2011 at 8:46 AM

    @praveen..thanks..

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