Showing posts from 2013

DAY 217 (Indian General Elections 2014 with Social Mobile apps)

It is the age of technology. The age of lack of time and overdose of curiosity. What we lack otherwise and don't think of it is how to make all this constructive. It is like a superpower that we have but we are waiting for a super-hero to come and show it off. But why not us?

Everyone of us has this authority and right to choose our representative. The one who will decide or be responsible for my community (infrastructure, maintenance), my child's future (education, background, facilities), my future (employment, industrial growth) and my country's development in the international progress chart.
On the other hand, in this generation, everyone of us has this other super-power called technology. I use it for facebook-ing, for spying on other people's lives, for showing off my own life, and the list goes on. And it all happens just on a single tap on my cell-phone anytime, anywhere (24x7). But does these actions of mine help my community in anyway? Naah..!! What does th…

DAY 216 (In encouragement of women power...)

No matter how independent or strong you are. No matter how gender-unbiased you are. No matter how you think/talk about women-power or women-strength…being a part of this society since your birth makes you weak in mind. You talk about taking stands and talking for yourself. You talk about being your own protector…your own spokesperson. You talk about being a fighter as strength lies in your heart and not in your body…but still you are only just a theory.
This society breeds it inside you and makes you dependent on the male part of the society. You look upto them to take a stand for you. You want them to smash someone’s face who eve-teased you last night. You want them to be your spokesperson somewhere in your heart so that the audience might get a more effective impact.
Is it fair to yourself? Women are not weak. They need no strong shoulders to cry on. They can cope up all hurdles and survive through the worst. And they don’t even have to fight for it. Because it is the patience and …

DAY 215 (The tickling memories with a friend-for-life..!! )

When it comes to memory, it becomes difficult to tag just one as the "most precious". And when the snippets are related from your friends, it makes you a little nostalgic too realising that "those were the days" and now the days have changed and grown. Sigh...!

Well...remembering the funny moments, I remember the tickling days when I would say I and my friend were half grown when it came to maturity. You know the college kids? ..who have just passed out from a student life and have entered into a formal corporate world and you are suddenly expected to grow 10 years to your age? never happens as it is expected. Infact, you try and suppress others to 10 years younger to fit in to your group.

They say you never make friends in office. All you have can be tagged under only colleagues, teammates, competitors etc. But I have been lucky enough to have been blessed with a friend-for-life from an unexpected venue! :-)

When it comes to stories..we have innumerable…

DAY 214 (An Immune India...!)

When we talk about nation and its future, youth or kids is the first category which gains our attention. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter whether your kid has a strong financial background or high scores in mathematics, what matters is how he copes up and survives in this world.

And when it comes to a competitive country like ours, our responsibility should be to teach our future generations to think ahead of winning a cut-throat competition. People raise so many concerns and crib for their own nation calling it corrupt, unhygienic, polluted, non-systematic and what not. Do they ever feel or think about the fact that they are an active contributor for these loop-holes?

How many of them haven't been a part of corruption?
Giving a Rs. 100/- note to that traffic policeman for not wearing helmet or entering into a one-way.
Giving that background check officer some under-the-table sweets for a smooth process of their passport generation.
Giving a policeman a little bribe t…

DAY 213 (The bitter phases..)

There are times when things are just clogging up your mind too much. You project yourself as a different personality though. Because if you don't do that, you might not be able to cope up a day with such burden.
However, as soon as there is a chance of you getting some idle time, you go back to the tensions, burdens and the strategies to solve them.

While all this is happening, you have the least idea that in order to hold yourself, you are losing others around you. Mostly, it is unintentionally or subconsciously and other times it is happening because you are just avoiding it as a part of your deal.

At such time, if the other person is also a part of these hectic chores, he might want or expect something else from you. And you both might be avoiding to bring these things up to avoid another pinch of salt.

Eventually, it comes out and erupts like a volcano. You never knew that the other person started having grudges meanwhile and there is so much inside him against you. You do no…

Day 212 (The self-analysis..!!)

A few days ago, my would-be-life-partner told me that I might not know but "I hate men"! I was shocked to hear that. I didn't believe at first and also thought of snapping out at him. But somewhere I had a I actually hate men? :-P

I then started analyzing myself next day onwards-

I was coming out very strong on feminine issues. I was sharing all "MARD (Men against Rape and Discrimination)" photos on facebook. I even bought one of those t-shirts too! I murmured "pervert" to every itchy guy I see on the bus.I was raising my voice and coming out strong for all wrong-doings done by the men in my office too!!I pity on every pregnant woman I see while commuting and imagine that why her useless husband is not picking and dropping her in this condition?

So maybe without realising, or without intending, I had actually started hating men!! But this is not good ..! To support a side, you don't have to oppose the other and we can't generalise t…

DAY 211 (Deception...)

Sometimes .. all you want is to be an anonymous. Because if people know you, they know you too much. And that gives them a lot of freedom of being deceptive and then defending themselves for not being a liar. Deception is just another form of lying is what I feel. Either you say the full truth or lie. There is nothing like "half truth" or "I didn't lie, I just didn't say the truth", etc.

I am reading the Shiva trilogy these days, and it is quoted in the 3rd volume-
"There is your truth and there is my truth. As for the universal truth, it does not exist."

Simply said but magnificently revealed. The problem lies when in "your truth"  you try to mix it with other's version of truth and create a cocktail. In a way, you will prove that you didn't lie and thus you are not at fault. But I am too idealistic to fall into that.

Life tests you everyday. And there is no correct answer to any of its questions. It is only the honesty of answ…

DAY 210 (The voice of the devil..!!)

These customer care executives have irritated me so much that I am giving them a space on my blog also..!!
First there is a long set of buttons that you have to press to reach that executive's extension. And after each button-press, there is an offer announcement which you can't skip or mute. After losing your mind halfway, you get to know that all the customer care executives are busy attending other customers. WTF??! Do other customers not have to go through this Chakravyuh?? Anyway...waiting is the only option. Meanwhile they keep playing their product song again and again and again. Can't you play some variety?? shouldn't take too long so I shouldn't bother much. The last time that recorded voice told me that approximate time of attending my call by their executive is 3 minutes.

So this is how it goes..
3 (I am rubbing my forehead)
2 (I am cursing)
1 ( come on..come on..come on...)

The approximate time of attending your call by our executive is…

DAY 209 (I am a Spartan...!!)

Okay..I know you all have been through this but still no one stops wondering. What is with this bus passengers? I meant !

Government has made a bus stop but no..!! Either they all stand ahead of it or behind of it. Sometimes I double check whether the roof on my head and the bench behind me is actually a bus stop or I am in Inception!! And these bus drivers..they pay heed to the crowd. They'll stop where there are more tickets.

Anyway...I get on it finally. Then, I feel like being one of the taporis of a Salman Khan movie and being punched from all the sides in all the angles. When I boarded, I could see 4 seats empty but there are ninjas who boarded too!! I blink my eyes and they are sitting there like they live there.

I pity on my self and ask a lady to please keep my heavy laptop bag beside her or under her seat. She stares at me in the first look as if I commented on her fat ass or her bulging breasts!! Then in the second look..."young lady..get a li…

DAY 208 (Do not Shut up..!)

Its silly that till the time you are in a lower grade in school, everyone teaches you to speak the truth and never lie. Lying is a sin they say. Being a victim and not reporting a crime is as big a sin as committing the crime itself .....isn't it? Maybe it is because it is your age to say a few kiddish lies or to do some naughty stuff and they don't want you to keep a practice of it.

Then...later on when you start growing and actually start understanding life, there comes a time when you start realising or becoming victims of others' wrong-doings. Now, that should be an equal sin too. But BAM..!! Now everyone says the opposite. They advice you not to say anything, keep away from the unnecessary fuss. They advice you to loop out yourself. But why?? Why now should I shut up?

What I have learnt from life is, if you are straight forward and you say what you see..what you hear, there is never an imbalance between your heart and your mind. You know what you are saying and you a…

DAY 207 (To the reptiles..!)

I sometimes can't believe that still in this era, such people exist in a literate industry like IT who believe that just because they have a penis, they can code better. Sounded too blunt right? What if I say that such people spit on my face saying "I cannot be efficient enough because I am biologically different? i.e. I am a female". Thats cold and worse than blunt..!!

Have you seen reptiles? The lizard that sticks to your roof and is uglier than anything you have ever seen before? A snake which is so slimy and sometimes looks shining but it is full of nothing but poison? A frog whose adobe is a stinking well?

So I have a hybrid of all these cold-blooded reptiles all around me. They look uglier than a lizard, have more poison than a snake and stink worse than a frog. Even if you remove their teeth, cut their tongue, bind them in chains, they will always be reptiles.

The best part is they forget where they came from. They would not have been born and would not have been…

DAY 206 (To the trend-followers..!)

Trends change after every decade. And sometimes you wish you were born in this decade and not that one. Stupidity is... everyone chooses to follow the trend rather than being a trend-setter. And everyone hates what they are following. Ofcourse! Because its kind of a routine. Nothing exciting. I do what 100 billion people are doing. I am as useless and unnoticeable as a rock on roadside.

Well...I'll give you some examples. Though I hate to recall my college days..but I remember that in my college, we had uniforms. Now for winter days, girls were allowed to wear either the regular salwar-suits that they wore during summers or the trousers, shirt and blazers. I don't know the exact reason, maybe it was because it was a conservative city/area where my college belonged or maybe every girl wanted to look as homely as she could to seduce the single boys...but no one ever chose for the trousers from past few years. But I chose to wear one. Some got satirical about it and few apprecia…

Day 205 (Be a teacher not a warden..!!)

I have been told since I was a child that I should never trust anyone. Thats the fundamental rule. I tried to follow it till maybe I was in 4th grade. But after that, I think I trusted the more as I was asked not to. Now that was not a rebel attitude. It was just that I was fighting with myself by following the rules.

It happens that our elders lay down some rules for ourselves the moment we are born, based on what they faced till the last few years of their life. But thats not a concrete prediction nor is it universal. It happened with me twice in 25 years of my life doesn't mean it is going to happen to my kid every day for the rest of their lives. And if I believe that then in order to protect my child I will make him a prisoner maybe.

Yes I know...that I will feel protective towards my kid being hurt. But for that I should be a part of his life on a regular basis. I should know what is happening with him, around him. I should suggest things. I should take advices from him. I …

Day 204 (Hardwork/Luck..!!)

Things shouldn't come too easy. A little difficulty keeps the thrill, adds the excitement and makes you proud of its achievement. Now if we think otherwise I might sound a little idiotic. What are you..crazy? .. People would say. You are getting something without working hard for it and you are unhappy about it? Yes I am.

To console myself in a superstitious way I might say that I would have done something good so this is a result I am getting. But I know deep inside that its all bullshit. Its a little luck thats playing me not rewarding me. And people get misled here.

My problem is satisfaction. Satisfaction of earning it is not what it is when getting it. And it gets hard to share when I am feeling otherwise. I won't like anyone else being special treated. And I treat myself as everyone else. Call it foolishness. I call it honesty and transparency.

If I don't have these traits, I might lose myself and might be lost forever too. No one would want that void.

All I need no…

DAY 203 (The "could(s)" ...!!)

Human tendency is to keep cribbing what they could have? And "Could" is a dangerous word. It has no limitation...just an unending horizon. Those who choose to stay in the "could" zone are always lagging something in their life. Either it is something they longed for or its something they just got interested into. But the urge is never the less in either of the cases.

They start struggling for the "could(s)" of their life. They fight for it. They work for it. Some of it they earn. Some of it is stealing. But every "could" adds 2 new baby "could(s)" to their family.

Satisfaction is a mirage if you are a human. Sometimes you create this mirage for others and sometimes for yourself. But not even once is it your real life or even a part of it.

The "could(s)" can be inspired from unending resources- your neighbours, your first cousins, your friends, your colleagues, your acquaintances, the person sitting next to you in bus, a movi…

DAY 202 (The complexities of the grey matter..!!)

Consciousness is a state of mind they say. So is confidence too in that case. But most of us are hanging between these two. We might pretend to be at one of the absolute ends of this bridge but we never cross the bridge. We are just going back and forth since ages.

Aaahh...with this I believe this post is going to be philosophical. Trust me it was unintended and unplanned. I am not confident about what I am writing but my consciousness keeps me going to experiment. You just entered and became the current state of my mind ...isn't it?

Its just all mind games which our own brain is playing with us. It makes us feel/believe that we are being puppets to somebody else's grey matter. But we never get out of the trap of our own junk inside our heads. We are just dangling day and night between black and white, do's and dont's, aspiration and practicality.

No one ever handles us. We do all disaster to ourselves. But just to save our-self from the embarrassment, we put it on so…

DAY 201 (An untitled lazy one..!!)

I have tried it in many ways but without that enthusiasm its just not possible. I see the things at my doorstep but I don't have the motivation to answer the door. I know that there is a staircase to lead me up but I feel lazy to climb it. I have food in my fridge but heating it is also a task for me.

It sounds pathetic and it is too. And worst part is when you see your own life going like a snail and you are unable to do anything about it.

It is not about motivation. It is not about a push also. It is just the lethargic me. And I don't even have the energy to explain this apathy.

There is nothing sad going on but there is nothing happy as well. I see the colours but I don't see them. I am not gloomy but I am not cheerful too.

I am just mounted on this chair, eyes glued to this spy screen that keeps popping me with new things without the old ones finished as if to irritate me more.

Sometimes I wonder, do I miss the old things??...things that have slipped now and can't…

DAY 200 (Mumbai..meri jaan!!)

Wandering on those polluted streets again...perspiring like a pig. Horns honking like an Indian marriage band all around me. People staring and posing at celebrities buildings/homes. And then a relieving cool breeze brush my cheeks whenever I reach the sea-side. If I ignore the couples smooching, the dirty water or the unnecessary crowd and noise, the view is a bliss! I sit there; watch the sunset; get into my poetic senses but realise I should go now probably. I reach the most used and always crowded place then...the local-train station where people irrespective of the caste, creed, colour, state, religion, occupation or sex pushing each other to get into the impatient train which can start any moment after it halts. Those who succeed run for seats but most of them prefer to hang on the door to beat the heat with the warm air gushes. Hawkers selling the local stuff, students reading their course books, families eating the vada-paav and the gang of guys discussing their next musical …

Day 199 (The party spoilers..!!)

I try to be indifferent towards people in general. And I expect the same treatment from them. But I think the equation goes well till the time I am not seeming happy to them.

It doesn't matter what day it is. It doesn't matter how happy you are. And it definitely doesn't matter how non-sharing you were when you planned something good for yourself!

People just have to pitch in! Why? How? Which? and their favourite... WHAT!!??

Its a simple thing .. Why ..because I want to! How... the way I want to! Which... whichever I want!! And for WHAT.... nothing; forget it!

Even if its a consistent behaviour, all I expect is a little "time-out" and sparing-factor for atleast one day in the year! It would cost them nothing..but it might give me the best time of the year!!

They didn't care when I was low...I don't want their pitching when I am happy!!

If I am capable enough to handle my problems...all I want is to let me enjoy my happiness too!! And stop spoiling every…

Day 198 (For the ungrateful ones..!)

You should do anything in life...but never be ungrateful..!
You might be might be might be "busy"...but being ungrateful might hurt someone too much to recover from.

You should never forget how much the person gave in for you once upon a time. You must not forget his efforts and you must not keep declaring it as a debt too. Love and affection can only be exchanged in these two units. Its not a debt to get undone with. And if you can't exchange them in the same units then be indifferent rather than being arrogant. It would hurt the doer less and make him less of a fool.

You cannot hide it under your immaturity...your poor memory or your daily schedule. It is you who lag the courtesy and the first step to mend it is to accept your ungratefulness.

Time might bring new people to your life but it can't overwrite the past times that someone gave to you for you to use it. Use it but don't spoil it. And if anything else then atleas…

DAY 197 (Hang the bastards!!)

No matter how far away am I sitting from my country but if I am an Indian... these things ought to infuriate me.
I couldn't even get over the atrocities that I read on Nirbhaya's case and I find my country flagging brutality with no shame everyday on a higher scale.

Maybe now media is spreading the word. Maybe now atleast we have started knowing about cases and they are not just done and over with in a kotwali record-book.
But is this awareness or these law-changing mechanisms affecting the animals out there even a little bit?
The rate with which these rape cases are increasing I think they have started enjoying being a part of it now! Victims are still victims but criminals are the celebrities now! They shine on front page for months only to be forgotten and get free.

Media tried to bring they raped one of them too. And they mock at us with their confidence to get-away with this.

And what rubbish is this "minor" concept in all these cases? Are you f***…

DAY 196 (Rendezvous with your mirror..!)

They tell you what you should do only when you DON'T want an advice.

They tell you what NOT to do and never what you should do instead.

They tell you that throughout your life your all actions were wrong because you DIDN'T follow them. The ones that gave good results were inspired by them somehow they believe.

They always tell you only your UNPLEASANT features and choose to forget the pleasant ones because they don't matter.

They turn you down, they push you back, they even kick your asses in front of a whole lot of another bunch. But still they were and they are NEVER wrong.

They scrutinize  your life, your living style and your breathing and claim that they NEVER kept control on you.

They are NEVER excited for your excitements, they NEVER pay heed to what you like and what you don't, they NEVER care what you wanted to be and what you are.

They always ASSUME you to be happy when you are in their ideal set of conditions and DECLARE you unhappy when they don't like…

Day 195 (Priorities are not your first love..!!)

Prioritizing is one thing and losing yourself is another. I have seen people who in the chase of "efficient prioritizing" forget themselves. They make their priorities their likings and sometimes start calling them their hobbies too. But I want to shake them and ask them "Is it your hobby? Really?? Do you love to do it? And if not...then who are you lying to?"

I mean you don't need to pin down your love or likings by analysing which one will be accepted more and taken well by the company you are surrounded by. I have also seen people deciding on the terms which will make their boss happy. For example, I like to dream about codes..(applause in the background); I like to script while taking shower... (appreciation by the team); I like to give a code fix while I am shitting (Weird faces but applause in the background)!

Did you ..(who fall in this category) just realised how big an idiot you sound like? Yes you are. You sound like an idiot brainless piece of mecha…

DAY 194 (To the people with a halo..!)

No matter how clever you will never be able to lie to yourself. You can convince yourself that your ideology is true but you know deep inside that its just a version of truth. You know that what you pretend to feel are not your feelings.
I have seen people faking friendships. Faking care. Faking affection. These are just few emotions which if taken theoretically are the purest of all. And I have never understood the reason of people trying to pretend being the "best" and "Sweetest" in front of everyone. 
It is quite obvious that everyone is not your "best" friend nor can everyone be the highest priority of life. Showing off that to everyone with such sweetness makes you a fool and not an angel.
What is the problem is being upfront? Some are the best, some are good friends, some are just friends and some maybe mere acquaintances! Everyone and everything cannot be a 10 on 10. 
I am probably writing this because I get treated like the "best on…

Day 193 (Peace ..!)

I have been asking myself..since when did I have to "think" to write? I just blabber on the paper as I do it with my mouth! Then why has it been so hard since a month. And you might call me bonkers if you would know that how free I am on weekends these days..but the reason is just "peace of mind". Truly. I know it sounds like I am ageing or is it another one of those spiritual sessions? But..No its not.

And it is not spiritual because the solution is not meditation or concentration? Its literally peace of mind without forcing it.

We always think that Ohh..we have nothing to do. Its a lazy weekend. I am bored to hell..!! My mind is blank. But wait a minute! Is your mind blank..I mean..really is it?

Having nothing to do, nowhere to go might keep your body free but your mind is wandering if you can't do something which you want to do. For example, if you have nowhere to go that doesn't mean that you don't want to go anywhere! It just means that you are fa…

Day 192 (Just another night...)

A cloudy Bangalore night. I see from my balcony...
Chilling breezes brushing cheeks every now and then. A saturday night it is...probably that is the reason that few houses still have their TV screens blinking from their windows. Beer shops still drizzling with happy customers. Dogs guarding every corner of the area. A couple taking a moon walk hand-in-hand. A beautiful half-moon peeping at me right above. Clouds skating from left to right. Crickets giving their attendance. Frogs singing out loud. It seems its about to rain. Suddenly, I notice that few cars are drenched already. Has it rained already? But how long have I been standing here? It did not rain..did it? Was I so lost? The roads are still dry. It has not rained. I am in my senses. Ohh..I get it! Its the cherry on the night's cake...its the dew! Wowww... Feels heavenly. Wait a minute. Something smelling too good it seems. But in the middle of the night..who the hell is cooking at this hour? Well...maybe my bache…

DAY 191 (Passion...)

The moment you join a junior school...people want to know what do you want to become. Since then till you become an independent person, they keep poking you with the same question. You might change your answer in different stages considering what is "cool" and what is not..but then you know your passion deep there..don't you?

Most of the time it happens that you keep it inside you to wait for the time when you are "settled enough" to make it come true. But can you define your scale of settlement?

Passion is something that needs a zeal to begin with. Then why do everyone (including me) want to pursue it in the last stages of our life. When everything else has given up then you are just surviving with your settlement trying to do what you could never do the rest of your life!!!

You murder yourself daily by doing everything that was never in your plan. You kill your passion and stab it every damn day when you get yourself ass-kicked in that little cube of yours w…

DAY 190 (Truth that slaps on the face..!)

Horror, terror and unbelievable were the first thoughts that hit me when I came across this story. A place which is a paradise in scenic beauty is practising such ridiculous and heinous laws that I am still in a state of shock as to what logic is inspiring them to continue practising it and not bring any change in the system!
The incident goes like this- There is a girl in Maldives whose stepfather is accused of raping her repeatedly for many years and now she bears his child. And the great Maldives court says that she must be punished for "Sex outside marriage" and she is gonna be whipped 100 times in public sometime soon.
Mr. Waheed, president of Maldives is facing global pressure as I read in the news. But what is that pressure doing? Is it helping to change this unbelievably ridiculous system? Is it changing the law? Will she be spared? I guess not.
It'll be a matter of shame probably for other citizens of Maldives and they might go for protests at the maximum. But …

DAY 189 (Venting out!!)

Sometimes you have so much inside you that it gets too hard to stuff it inside. Now PLEASE do not tell me to "vent it out"! Coz trust me if thats how it cud have worked, this blog-post wouldn't have existed.

Why does a problem has to be "defined" everytime for it to get solved?
Why cannot someone keep their pseudo-smartness and socialism inside themselves and not brag in front of people who don't give a damn to it?
Why is it that show-off is never out-seasoned?
And most importantly...why does it all have to be in my baggage?

I am someone who is very frank in displaying my likes and dislikes equally. But I do not know why people are always interested in discussing the least-interested things with me?
I should manage probably. But why? And till when?

Keep your "special" things to yourself buddy and let me keep mine. And certainly do not ask me the "whys" and "whats".

The irritation gets unbearable when you even start getting que…

Day 188 (Virtual Reality!)

Dreams, there is something about them that makes us think. Even those kind of people for whom thinking is not their strength stop for a moment trying to understand what it meant. There was this bloke who wrote an entire book about interpreting dreams and its considered to be the most comprehensive study about dreams, I read a chapter or two of that book and then gave up (we will come back later as to why) and in recent times there was a pretty good movie about them which didn't stop at just a dream but went on about having dreams within a dream. Now what is it about dreams that keep us awake?
What puzzles me is that why dreams need to be interpreted? Why they can't be just that - Dreams? In my culture there is this belief that if you dream about something during dawn it usually comes true (or do people believe this world over? I don't know). I read in the book I was talking about earlier that if some loved one dies in your dream it usually means that you want him/her to b…

DAY 187 (Asshole-ism)

Asshole-ism cannot be defined or measured. It is just a trait which I think quite easily found these days. I have had so much of it that I can categorise it now-

The Ungrateful Ones- This is the rare sub-category where people forget who gave them that one push that they needed. They tend to show that it is all happening because of their own hardwork and talent and that they never needed anyone's help. They get so immersed in their delusion that they start taking the person who started it all as "invisible" and they ignore and choose to keep the poor guy "uninformed". They think they will achieve great heights with this and people will praise and bow down to their talent but they will soon meet someone on the way- "the truth"!
    2.  The schizophrenic ones-
The ones belonging to this category choose to act as idiots so that people can never blame them for their idiocity. They are born-idiots who have nothing inside their brains except bullshit but the…

DAY 186 (Life is a Bitch..! )

Ever wondered why you never get that ecstatic feeling even after putting your last drop of sweat to some work and completing it just on time?
Its because you work amongst this poor, stinking, full-of-politics, ungrateful and unappreciative bunch of assholes who will take your life with that crooked smile and choking amount of work and then forget about it and tell you your "points of improvements" the next day!!

Life is a bitch they say! True it seems. 'Cos once you enter IT industry...thats your life and that "life" is all about who is governing it and standing on your head!

I don't understand a simple logic. Why can't someone be honest. Simple. One word. One powerful and respectful word. HONEST.

Give the person exactly the amount back that he gave to your work. Be appreciative when he does something commendable. Be a guide when he is taking the wrong direction or lagging behind. Above HONEST with what you want from him.

Is it that difficult?

DAY 185 (Be a Nation..!)

I know there is too much happening around. Everyday you open the newspaper, there are atleast 4-5 rape cases reports, coward Pakistanis creating a mess on LOC, Owaisi the hate-monger and the list goes on.

Things shake you up when you read about them..don't they? But as soon as those 20 pages get over, your life again gets centred around yourself. Your office, your boss, your family, your friends and all that shit that is sucking your routine!

Watching an Arnab Goswami show and then screaming "Hell Yeah!" that what this nation is all capable of? We are blaming the government and the government is blaming us back. This is us...this is our NATION!

No doubt that the Delhi Rape Case brought the majority of the citizens (youngsters) come up united but things don't end here. It is not even the toe of the problem. And trust me when you jot down the shit happening in your life and the shit happening all around will find yourself woken up from a beautiful dream…