Day 212 (The self-analysis..!!)

A few days ago, my would-be-life-partner told me that I might not know but "I hate men"! I was shocked to hear that. I didn't believe at first and also thought of snapping out at him. But somewhere I had a doubt...do I actually hate men? :-P

I then started analyzing myself next day onwards-

  • I was coming out very strong on feminine issues. 
  • I was sharing all "MARD (Men against Rape and Discrimination)" photos on facebook. I even bought one of those t-shirts too! 
  • I murmured "pervert" to every itchy guy I see on the bus.
  • I was raising my voice and coming out strong for all wrong-doings done by the men in my office too!!
  • I pity on every pregnant woman I see while commuting and imagine that why her useless husband is not picking and dropping her in this condition?


So maybe without realising, or without intending, I had actually started hating men!! But this is not good ..! To support a side, you don't have to oppose the other and we can't generalise things as well and put it on the head of all the men in the world!

So then .. I re-analysed..!! :-P

Well...

  • I am supporting this propaganda of MARD ...initiated my a man (Farhan Akhtar). 
  • The feminine issues on which I was speaking up on my blogs or social-networking status, even my would-be-life-partner and my dad are raising voices on those issues. 
  • I call those itchy guys in the bus as perverts but I get up from my seat to help an elderly gentleman to relax too. 
  • Then there is a guy in my office who is not a chauvinist and I felt really angry when I got to know that a female colleague complaint about him for none of his fault..!! 
  • And I see and know many non-pregnant women too whose husband take care of them without any physical dependency of their wives on them! 


So no Mr. would-be !! I don't hate men. I hate a category of them. And I hate that category quite strongly. Which is fair I guess... :-)

Comments

  1. :D :D totally true.
    I too dont hate men. I just ignore some of them. to the core ;) ;)

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  2. Glad to know that you don't have a biased opinion about all men...they are not alike and it is important to put things in proper perspective,although you are well justified in raising feminist issues...

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  3. yo ..i am feeling so good to be proven wrong :D :)

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